“PATIENCE” – a little but valuable thing

This word is actually nothing but everything. But I’m confused to see that why student or teenagers don’t have patience. There is a little word to use when you know you are wrong. But why we always (specially teenagers & college students) avoid it i.e. saying sorry when we know that we aren’t right.

Many a time I observe that when teacher rebuke his or her student instead of saying sorry student argue with !
I am really surprised to see that how much time has been changed since the time we were student. We never spend our time in argument with our teachers but now-a-days things are different or say totally different.
Sometimes we say sorry because we know well that by using this little but effective device we will save our valuable time.
Question is still unanswered that why teenagers don’t have patience?
we know well that our environment creates everything and we ourself create it. What is environment? of course the surroundings in which we ( teenager students and we) resides. Environment is friend circle, family and teacher. We see, wwe ovserve and as it is human psychology there is a unique thing in human i.e curiosity which come in thought after seeing the things constantly. Perhaps parents allow their offsprings to commit such things that are actually not good for them and for society as well thinking that its my only son and daughter or any other baseless logic that create ill environment.

Really this act of parent is not going to strong their offsprings but make them weak from very starting because it is the law of nature we have to wait for everything i.e we must have patience for the things as everything will happen but a protocol is necessary to make them happen and every protocol takes time and for it you have to wait and for this you must be patient.

Parents allow them to do things thinking that they are showing their love but actually they are making the roots of their offsprings weak by their love . They fulfill their baseless demands and think that they have perform their duty well. But its myth because it creates an illusion that everything can be achieved easily .
But dear parents life is not so easy by this practise your offsprings will become lazy and find everything monotonous because they would not have habit to wait as I usually observe in most of the teenager students.

For students its a message : dear student if you will not have patience you may loose the opportunity because opportunity come but it never come directly or say it disguise itself before coming to you, If you have patience only then you can observe that the thing before you is an opportunity that you must grab.

If you have observed every minute or second you spent with people from whom you can learn something then you will find that you are able to understand opportunity because you had patience and you have learnt how opportunity chase you and then you will be in the position to catch the opportunity .
here I would like to add a real example of my life , some of my classmates are selling fruits on thelas because that time they just ignored to their teachers thinking as if the person standing before us is a stupid and who learnt and had patience in listening to teachers are now on the great positions or going to that position.

I couldn’t stop myself to write this article whin I have seen a student ; while giving exam duty; arguing with my co-invigilator and that student were behaving as if he were a king or something else but as i could see the mistake is not of student who were behaving like but of environment to which that student belongs to .
So its my humble request to parents: give their offsprings love and affection but not make them weak by your love. As a bird is fully confiedent on its new born babies and let them fly and face the truth of nature and allow them to learn new things but always guide or punish them on their wrong doing . You must apply this because your offsprings are asset of our country and by this you will become anti-nationalist. And I fully beleieve that you will not be like to prefix this title before your name.

@ JATIN KAKKAR J.K.

Disclaimer: the purpose of this article is mere communicate what I see what I observe and think necessary to share with my countrymen because I as well as another people are nothing but a family member of a common chief India our motherland.

“DESTINY AND LIFE” : An abstract

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“DESTINY AND LIFE” : An abstract

Sometimes you do and find yourself indulged in the activities we think we should not be but we are . You try to know solutions from everyone. Your solutions are designed before creation of questions.
“Tere sawalon me hi chupa hai tera jawab bhi kahin, raasta milega magar yahan vahan nahi tere sawalon mein hi kahin.”
you think sometimes you are not on right track but you can’t find yourself able to change your track. if you can you should change your track otherwise try to wait for the another page of the most interesting book ever i.e. life. you will certainly get something adventurous and interesting !

Life and destiny are coupled with a great adhesive so enjoy the every page of this book, you can do just one thing that is in your hand is efforts to keep yourself out of the situation you never want to be and just wait for the correct time!

When time will come you will certainly find that too you want to; you will certainly meet your destiny beause your life & destiny are great lover and cannot be separated with eah other .
That is the main reason your life want nothing but simply expect one and last thing that you read every page of it taking interest and if you are not comfortable with any page then wait for its another page coming before your eyesight.

Because this is the only book in which you cannot turn pages by yourself!
Thats why be honest towards everyone and towards yourself too.
This will be a great solution for those who find something unpleasant and abnormal because : ” ye jo zindagi ki kitaab hai , ye kitaab badi lajawab hai , aur iske kisi paane par agar koi marj hai to beshak kisi dusre panne par us marj ka ilaaj hai!”

JATIN Kakkar – J.K. (This is an extract of my work Life and destiny still in progress)

“FREEDOM 251 GOING TO BE A REALITY OR WILL BECOME MERE A BLUR DREAM???”

As we see its too easy to make us fool when we deliberately wanna become fool thinking as if this value is not material for us and ignores many facts and figures that we must know , we think we are too smart and a big risk taker when we do such types of jobs , that is really a big example of our
foolishness!
When I was seeing the advertisement some days before this company was offering smartphone for Rs. 3000/ .
After some days I found an another full page advertisement on the leading newspapers .
God knows whether company is going to supply a smartphone in such cheap price or going to make the innocent people fool as they deliberately want to become and the person who want to fell into a dig who can save.
Anyway I m not criticizing anyone in any manner but the thing is not digestible because we study in Indian contract act,1872 that offer to perform an impossible act is void ab initio, but this act can be successful as well as become a blur dream!
Anyway everything is lying in the leap of time and time is the best reporter ever and will inform us whether we are really fool or become smart after getting the freedom 251 in a country where we have not get the basic and necessary thing that are our prime needs , getting smartphone @ 251 cure us how much and in how much extent lets see !
One thing is certain that company has gotten good response from people as they want to purchase a smartphone for such cheaper price in which a monthly data plan is not available, One thing is really surprising that in our country there is not people of different different thought but of same kind of thinking getting things without thinking about and giving due consideration to the things should be considered.
Anyway what’ll happen in June is really a suspense because people are saying different different things about this offer but reality may be something different and might be they are expecting . Let’s wait for June and everything will be cleared.
My motive is not to criticize over this advertisement but mere I want to know your views and want to make a debate and really want to know how is this possible for company to supply smartphone not for Rs 1000 but 1/4 plus a little fraction of cost , it might be possible but really if it happens it will be a big achievement and a big shock for other players playing in this sector.
Waiting for Answers : JATIN Kakkar – J.K. @ j.k.

INTERVIEW PROCESS IN GOVERNMENT JOBS

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INTERVIEW PROCESS IN GOVERNMENT JOBS

As we heard many times that one of our  friends has cleared the written exam but could not clear the interview, at this  a question arise in one’s mind oftenly  like that ,”whether  I am competent to get this job or I m running in the wrong direction.” He or she may confuse and sometimes decide to quit the decision he or she takes with firm determination,

He or she may confuse and sometimes decide to quit the decision he or she takes with firm determination, that’s mean it’s really an activity of  nipping a glooming sapling into the very bud. A question that oftenly comes into my mind and make me disturbed ; A participant who is competent enough to crack the written exam and know the strength and weakness of own  ; me why he or she could not find himself or herself able to correct the the mistakes committed by him in the interview.

As we see many times interview of Government jobs  are quite different from that of a private job, in a private job interview interviewer check the confidence and smartness in answering to the question asked in , but I always remains confused what is asked in the

interviews of government jobs. As after discussing with one of my friend cum colleague ;about his interview of government job ; I come to know after such discussion that there is no criteria to be selected and which type of answers will make you selected and how can you know about your mistakes which you have committed in the interview.

clearly he mentioned me that he asked nothing and told to sit there and sometimes later said him to go from there saying that your interview has been done, I really became surprised to hear it! Why should I not become surprised ?  when he told me that he came back and finally he didn’t get the job. I m not criticizing over anything but trying to emphasizing over the unconventional methods of  1960 which are continuously implementing while taking interview.

Suggestion is  nowhere but here . As If  appearing in a written test a participant  is awarded marks in different-different sections and he gets the score card  for his self evaluation and making his or her  error correct and also enable himself or herself for next attempt then why not such practise is being adopted in Interview?

I think and really believe if a candidate will get the marks for appearing in interview and the marks would be bifurcating into different-different aspects comes under the interview like salutaion , confiedence and presentation skills and many more things based on which interview is being conducted if any.

There should be mentioned the reason  of non-selection of participant if any after appearing and disqualifying the interview so that participant may work on the reasons for which he/ she has not been selected and  may try to convert his or her weaknesses into opportunities, Is it bad? If you know your loop holes  and you are talented enough you can give your talent a right direction  instead of criticizing over stupid things.

I thik this practise should be adopted by our government because talent in our country is being misleaded by anti-nationalist after facing the rough treatment even after having a lots of talent .

In our country there is no scarcity of talent but the scarcity if any is tha how to handle and employ that talent, i.e efficient management , Its a country of Management Guru  Chanakya where talent is given priority over anything else!

waiting for your feedbacks and queries @J.K.

 

“WE CAN BACKWARD OR WE CAN FORWARD” ( An out of the box approach)

Today on the happy and pleasant morning of Basant panchami I m feeling fresh and happy because I become able to collect many a little and just going to convert them into a mickle.
Two days before as I was busy in my work I was really enjoying my work because as a thinker every place every situation and every surrounding whether positive or negative give me the reason to think over what is happening . I have developed a habit of not wasting time ;on stupid things by lots of practice; thinking about, “ what will happen and what will if such thing happens.”
I know one thing that everything which is planned by the destiny which has been designed by the creator of this universe will happen certainly or which is not the part of the blueprint i.e destiny which has been designed by the the God himself cannot take place at any cost!
As we oftenly see lots of people always remains busy in thinking about future espasially those who think as if they were smartest people on this universe and remaining are fool and they have no sense of understanding what is going on .
I always observe this quote “ Opportunities comes to everyone but most of us cannot understand it because it looks like a lots of hardwork again and again.” Most of us usually say these types of words, “We’ll do it tomorrow.”thinking as if we were escaping from any burden but actually we avoid our opportunity as we cannot sacrifice our ego that time which is necessary to grab any opportunity and cunningly try to pass it over another innocent people and feels that we have proved our smartness!
That is an example of biggest foolishnesh!
Really I’m surprised to see the reason why our country is still backward!
Everyone except few cares about self interest and thinks of own future but ensuring such futute that never comes they ruined their present as well as that of others by hurting other and thinking them a dam fool!
They lost their respect as well as many more things which are far most from their approach! They can’t even imagine ; the interest to whom other is entitled to ; how much they will have to repay it with compound interest and when they understand, its already too late situation encounter them!
I m not in the mood to criticize anyone over anything prevailing at the domestic as well as professional front I couldn’t stop myself to react over what I have seen and faced in recent days at different different place.
Emotions doesn’t always weaken us sometimes emotions works like a sword too and the person who plays with sword can hurt even himself or herself . So make sure whether you are playing a safe game.
Anyway lets forget about criticism . now I would like to draw your attention at what want to catch your eyes the core motive of this article; that how can we find ourself in backward situation:
If we continuously thinking about own interest and for getting it we are paining too much (beyond genuineness) not to ourselves but others. From the time westart such practice we ensures our backwardness.
If we consider too much about future instead of giving due consideration to (present) little little works thinking as if we were have enough time to settle such work later on.
When we try to shift our duties ; instead of sharing burden ; over the shoulders of others. Since the time we employ such kind of pranks we come two step back, one we loose our respect in another’s eyes and second we finished our versatility with our own hands or we press the neck of opportunity with our own hands.
When we try to run in opposite direction while the carvan is on different one; you will be certainly looted by dacoits ( carvan here means the team and dacoits here means the opposite situations)
When you forget , “ who you are?” “what is your duty and how to fulfil it without affecting the interest of others?” i.e. if you are at the topmost position its your core duty to check the virus of discrimination if any exist and try to nipped it into the bud otherwise you will be chopped by the attack of such virus and the person who rely you!
These are mere a glimpse of some facts which helps us to stand in backward position
Choice is always remains with us. Whether we want to stand us in backward position or forward position.
Till now I have created so much darkness in my article now I want to offer you some light, the reason of creating such darkness was not making you demotivated but to realize you the importance of light!
Practises by following which we may ensure our way to Forward position:
Proper guidance to whom that are inferior if we guide someone we shouldn’t think we are cutting our foot with our own axe i.e. feeling of cooperation and help should be inherent part of our thinking and action. By practicing we gain nothing but everything i.e. respect and regard that can make perform anything to any extent practicable!
Not to take undue benefit of any asset you got by chance because you are lucky enough that you procure that . take benefit but in an optimum and suitable genuine manner because you have to take long term benefits from that asset.
Practice the habit of balancing the workload by assigning the specific work to specific person you think suitable for such particular work and if work Is too much monotonous then try to share genuinely not fictitiously !
For this I would like to stick a quote I heard ever “ KAATH KI HANDI EK BAR HI CHULHE PAR CHADTI HAI.”
Honesty is the best policy but only when it is applied for whole not for himself or herself i.e. practicing honest practice for self and becoming dishonest when anothers’ turn arrives.
Lastly I would like to say or suggest whichever you take its totally as per you!
“Together we stand, alone we fall but for moving the train towards destination every wheel has to be rotate from its place.”
Thank you all prospective readers for showing your interest patience;if you have got whatever I want to communicate you; to read this article and hope that you have enjoyed it !
Happy and fruitful Basant panchami to every reader! (your valuable feedbacks are the soul of my article and every time I receives your feedback I try to improve myself so that I may touch your hearts virtually)

(“HAPPY BASANT PANCHAMI ONCE AGAIN” spread the sense of motivation and cooperation , another things are being spreaded by lots of people already, be an out of the box thinker!!!!!!!)

JATIN KAKKAR @J.K

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