Are you a Book Lover? If yes here is a good news for you .Book Fairs are being organized in many cities where books of your favorite writers can be purchased under a single roof through many book stalls . People are visiting and buying good books as per their choices. One good book is equivalent to thousand good friends. Really reading books is like a silent transmission of thoughts from whole world “Books are our never failing friends and I always found it interesting to spend hours with these friends for inspiration,knowledge and motivation and the one most interesting thing is that this friend don’t feel disturbed even if we’re talking it in the midnight Continue reading “BOOK READING-silent inspiration”
SEEKING COMFORTS BUT INVITING DISASTER
Everyone everywhere is trying to seek comforts even in small activities. In the quest of seeking comfort we have ignored so many factors which leaves adverse effect on us. for example we stopped using bicycle and started using motor vehicles. Now a days Delhi is the most polluted city in the world Continue reading “SEEKING COMFORTS BUT INVITING DISASTER”
VICTORY OVER OWN THOUGHTS
“HOW COLOURFUL! THE COLOURS ARE ”
Hello dear prospective readers I know everyone loves colour because it is the initiation point of your thinking . Have you ever made a comment or compliment on someone seeing that in a particular c…
“Your Switches must be in your own hands”
Many-a-times we oftenly see the situations where people can be seen saying like,” He or she is irritating me!” Oh God! Such person is so irritating and annoying !” At this behavior of people I really feel surprised because I know that nothing can affect us except our own attitude towards life and people we interact with in our life span.
How a person who doesn’t having any sense of speaking or say an indifferent person who has considered only his or her business.
Psychologically everything starts from your thinking . If you feel hurt and respond to a nonsense argument that means you are going to hand over your remote control into anothers’ hands. (The meaning here giving remoter control is; yours reaction on the silly and stupid behavior of people oftenly can be seen in every environment. If you react that means you have handed over your switches into anothrs’ hands and such people will do it again and again because they would know that when you loose your control over yourself and where you become unconscious .)
The things are simple but you make them as typical as a “Math da method “ and in this way you start expecting the help of others for doing that job that means nothing but giving your swithches into the hand of that person to whom you are expecting something.
He or she from whom you are expecting to get the work done will do or not do , if do then how much time he or she will take? Will he or she consider it as his or her own work or will perform it as a mere formality?
You are the boss of your own will and you are having power to take decisions an your ar really able enough to bear the risk of failure or your decision because when your decisions will be fructified it will no one who will celebrate (the victory of your achievements) the most but you yourself!
Swami vivekanand quote “ All the powers of this universe are inherent in human but he or she try to find it here and there like a kastoori deer!”
You believe on others yourself and later complaint that someone has ditched you; Why will you not be ditched? You are responsible and deserve it ; why you believe on others more than beleieving on yourself while you know very well it is no one but you yourself who will accompany you all the time and will take pain for your interests more than anyone .
But it’s a misfortune you don’t dare to believe on such a dedicated and faitful friend and expect from others and in the meantime if the person to whom you are expecting something doesn’t stand good on your expectation you feel dejected and feel belooted. Who is responsible for it, the person you expected from or you yourself?
Of course you because you yourself have passed your switches into the hands of that person.
You should believe on your own mind , hands and everything you have been gifted by the nature and think this type of motivational quote for self motivation and direction. “mere ek hath ko bas mere duje haath ka sahara mil jaye , bas isi ke dam par mujhe duniya ki har daulat mil jaye!”
If you will believe on yourself first then you will be able to hold your switches in your own hands otherwise people will play with you .sometimes they will on and rest of the time off. I.e you will be responding over their sill –silly acts or dramas!
Moral: you are mightier than mightier ; need is of nothing but realizing yourself i.e “ khud ko theek se samajh lo duniya ko samajhna khud ba khud aa jayega!”
JATIN Kakkar – J.K.
“HOW COLOURFUL! THE COLOURS ARE ”
Hello dear prospective readers I know everyone loves colour because it is the initiation point of your thinking .
Have you ever made a comment or compliment on someone seeing that in a particular colour . of course you would have because to the extent I know the human psychology it is unavoidable that’s why I focused and concentrate myself to write over this topic which will really touch the nerves of many specially that population who are teenager .
hopefully teenagers will find it interesting as this article will touch their real lives and they will find themselves imagining in the roleplay which they play .
on this special occasion which is known as the day of colours and we have to make it real day of colours (HOLI) , colours are everywhere in life but sometimes we ignore them due to ego and ill attitude. Colours cannot be detached from anyone’s life they are the reason of happiness and every feeling we have start from colours. Eyes are really the entrance to anyones heart and soul , eyes see what the things which are wrapped into so many colours that are so many experiences of life.
From a long time I was eagerly finding the topic on which I should write and which would be interesting and really joyous to describe and really eager to write about then suddenly one day I got a chance to see the colorful environment around me during my professional. Eveytime life give us so many experiences and if we really take interest we find. Finally I m writing about colours and importance of colours in everyone’s life.
VARIOUS INTERESTING PROSPECTS OF COLOURS IN ANYONE’S LIFE
Colors are really having a great importance in our life. Everyone is having own attitude towards any color and everyone is having different viewpoint regarding colors . Colours are really life of anyone’s life .When we see anyone in colorful dress our mind and heart feel joy and our eyes find colour as real nourishment for it.
Sometimes we feel so boared and for removing that boardem we visit such place where there are availability of various colours and every colour give us different-different feeling .
On an occasion when I had seen everywhere I found that how life looks in colours! Really it would be a begger description to describe the importance of colours. Everyone was looking happy in such colourful dresses as never before except some days.
Most of the teenagers feels fanatic about taking selfless in colourful dresses. Adds charm to their cute faces and adds to their happiness. They feel happy when become free to do everything like a free bird who can move smoothly in the whole sky wherever it want to move , what they really want from life i.e fun , lots of attention , gossips and memorable time with friends.
colour can be correlated with past which reminds us so many valuable experiences and the people who say that we should foget about past are really of traditional thinking because every colour of life is necessary to bring us into existence what we are today and we should always remember every colour of past they are really foundation of our present structure and our present colour is due to those colours which had been filled in our lifes’ scrapbook in past and really we are nothing but the collection of various colours which have been increased by and by.
Our past is really like a scrapbook on which different- different colourful pictures have been posted and colours are filled on every page of this book. Whenever I see any old pic available with me in which every friend is available and we had a pleasant time with each other. If you able to remember those who smile to see you happy is also a colour of your life and those who really feels happy to see you sad is another colour of life .whether colour is your favourite or not gives you any experience which will certainly fill your life which is like a scrapbook with so many new colours(i.e new experiences about to come in your life ) Like allegation of colours i.e Red + yellow= black life will also get a new colour when we mixed so many colours of our life together.
You should remember those too who had filled negative colours into your life’s scrapbook because you will be able to tackle with them in future in well diplomatic manner only when you would be able to remember every colour of your life but not everyone is strong enough to accept every colour that’s why we see the people remembering only those colours that are pleasant and having sweet and joyous memory and ignore those colours which are really dark but actually dark colours make us strong enough to deal with any situation coming into our life.
Another comparison of colour can be made with simplicity of life, people usually prefer dark and shining colours but not like those colours so much which are really foundation of those colours and without them such colours cannot be prepared (i.e VIBGYOR , VIOLET, BLUE, GREY, YELLOW, ORANGE, RED) these colours are simple and not so much complex and really provide us directly by the nature but who cares nature human being has become so selfish and don’t care about nature too then how question of caring about the things provided by nature arise! Who care for simplicity now this slogan “ SIMPLE LIVING AND HIGH THINKING !” exists only and olnly on the pages of books which are never opened in the age of social media where the place of books has been replaced by the various apps like FACEBOOK, WHATSAPP & VARIOUS APPS available on google playstore.
Simple things are not liked by anyone with whole heartedly even by those who say that they love simplicity. Colours are potential enough to change our viewpoint , if you are able to observe various colour around you then see someone smiling because of you ,its guaranteed you will see and feel as much colours as you can because your act for making someone smile not only make happy to that person but also you. Try it and find yourself. Simplicity is a colour in itself which give us peace of mind.
Life can also be seen as a colourbox and using colour safely and intelligently from such colourbox is a question of experience: Life is really nothing but a box of colour and like a student its our choice and intelligence use which colour at which time, a student know which colour will create his or her scenery attractive and everything is nothing but creativity and it can not be purchased but can be achieved by lots of practice and hardwork. Now a question would be certainly come into your mind ,”If life is a clolourbox then who is the stupid enough to fill it . ?” of course time and destiny who are great lover and never let anyone alone because they are strong enough to accept each other with existing shape and size and colour. This couple is responsible for filling the colour in the colourbox of life. Now it would be a probable question “who are similarized with colour in such colourbox?” the colours are our friends colleagues , near and dears and everyone who is connected with us whether live or virtually over social media and another mean of communiation.
Hopefully every colour is having different meaning in our life say red colour is resembeled with colour of love and green colour is considered as prosperity and saffron represents peace.
Colours can also be seen as many occasions coming into our life: every festival and every occasion coming into our life is really like a colour which we want or not Every phase of life come towards us just like a colour balloon with different -different colour (i.e love, fun , entertainment , joy ,carziness and every experience). These colours are like blessings which fill us from head to foot. And blessings are very important to gain anything . on the eve of holi a surprising and usual thing can be seen .
people use colours not to play the game of passing blessings and exchanging the joy with each other but they convert this game into a battle ground and filled their mind with such type of inferior feeling like “we have to pull him and make him colourful because he done the same for us whether we are using safe colour or not , we never think about quality of colour , whether our colour will leave bad impact on him we don’t care at all.
Colours are around us everytime but ancestors had made a day to realize and visualize them on a particular day named HOLI and really interesting to describe about it as many a stories can be heard to celebrate this festival but every story is having a religious aspect but what we observe is really an out of the box approach totally scientific and psychological aspects of human brain, people have a day when they have time to meet with every colour existing in life and feel blessed because everything starts from a little word “SOCH” so please make sure that colours are present in everyones life someone see and someone ignore. Who you want to be is merely depends upon your thinking and experiences you have receieved and are existing in your colourbox. Stay blessed and stay happy.
“ZINDAGI KE HAR RANG KO KEEMAT DENA SEEKHO GALIB, KYUNKI HAR RANG KI APNI EK KEEMAT HOTI HAI, DUNIYA KI SOCH HI BEKAR HAI VARNA JO HAMESHA KEHTI HAI KI YE CHEEJ BEKAR HAI, VARNA AISA KYUN LIKHA HOTA KITABON MEIN KI ISHVAR NIRAKAR HAI , HAR RANG KO KEEMAT DENA AGAR SEEKH GAYE TO SAMAJH LENA KI JEENA VAKAY HI TUMAHRA SAKAR HAI”
WITH LOTS OF BLESSINGS
HAPPY HOLI@JATIN kakkar-jk
“PATIENCE” – a little but valuable thing
This word is actually nothing but everything. But I’m confused to see that why student or teenagers don’t have patience. There is a little word to use when you know you are wrong. But why we always (specially teenagers & college students) avoid it i.e. saying sorry when we know that we aren’t right.
Many a time I observe that when teacher rebuke his or her student instead of saying sorry student argue with !
I am really surprised to see that how much time has been changed since the time we were student. We never spend our time in argument with our teachers but now-a-days things are different or say totally different.
Sometimes we say sorry because we know well that by using this little but effective device we will save our valuable time.
Question is still unanswered that why teenagers don’t have patience?
we know well that our environment creates everything and we ourself create it. What is environment? of course the surroundings in which we ( teenager students and we) resides. Environment is friend circle, family and teacher. We see, wwe ovserve and as it is human psychology there is a unique thing in human i.e curiosity which come in thought after seeing the things constantly. Perhaps parents allow their offsprings to commit such things that are actually not good for them and for society as well thinking that its my only son and daughter or any other baseless logic that create ill environment.
Really this act of parent is not going to strong their offsprings but make them weak from very starting because it is the law of nature we have to wait for everything i.e we must have patience for the things as everything will happen but a protocol is necessary to make them happen and every protocol takes time and for it you have to wait and for this you must be patient.
Parents allow them to do things thinking that they are showing their love but actually they are making the roots of their offsprings weak by their love . They fulfill their baseless demands and think that they have perform their duty well. But its myth because it creates an illusion that everything can be achieved easily .
But dear parents life is not so easy by this practise your offsprings will become lazy and find everything monotonous because they would not have habit to wait as I usually observe in most of the teenager students.
For students its a message : dear student if you will not have patience you may loose the opportunity because opportunity come but it never come directly or say it disguise itself before coming to you, If you have patience only then you can observe that the thing before you is an opportunity that you must grab.
If you have observed every minute or second you spent with people from whom you can learn something then you will find that you are able to understand opportunity because you had patience and you have learnt how opportunity chase you and then you will be in the position to catch the opportunity .
here I would like to add a real example of my life , some of my classmates are selling fruits on thelas because that time they just ignored to their teachers thinking as if the person standing before us is a stupid and who learnt and had patience in listening to teachers are now on the great positions or going to that position.
I couldn’t stop myself to write this article whin I have seen a student ; while giving exam duty; arguing with my co-invigilator and that student were behaving as if he were a king or something else but as i could see the mistake is not of student who were behaving like but of environment to which that student belongs to .
So its my humble request to parents: give their offsprings love and affection but not make them weak by your love. As a bird is fully confiedent on its new born babies and let them fly and face the truth of nature and allow them to learn new things but always guide or punish them on their wrong doing . You must apply this because your offsprings are asset of our country and by this you will become anti-nationalist. And I fully beleieve that you will not be like to prefix this title before your name.
@ JATIN KAKKAR J.K.
Disclaimer: the purpose of this article is mere communicate what I see what I observe and think necessary to share with my countrymen because I as well as another people are nothing but a family member of a common chief India our motherland.
“DESTINY AND LIFE” : An abstract
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“DESTINY AND LIFE” : An abstract
Sometimes you do and find yourself indulged in the activities we think we should not be but we are . You try to know solutions from everyone. Your solutions are designed before creation of questions.
“Tere sawalon me hi chupa hai tera jawab bhi kahin, raasta milega magar yahan vahan nahi tere sawalon mein hi kahin.”
you think sometimes you are not on right track but you can’t find yourself able to change your track. if you can you should change your track otherwise try to wait for the another page of the most interesting book ever i.e. life. you will certainly get something adventurous and interesting !
Life and destiny are coupled with a great adhesive so enjoy the every page of this book, you can do just one thing that is in your hand is efforts to keep yourself out of the situation you never want to be and just wait for the correct time!
When time will come you will certainly find that too you want to; you will certainly meet your destiny beause your life & destiny are great lover and cannot be separated with eah other .
That is the main reason your life want nothing but simply expect one and last thing that you read every page of it taking interest and if you are not comfortable with any page then wait for its another page coming before your eyesight.
Because this is the only book in which you cannot turn pages by yourself!
Thats why be honest towards everyone and towards yourself too.
This will be a great solution for those who find something unpleasant and abnormal because : ” ye jo zindagi ki kitaab hai , ye kitaab badi lajawab hai , aur iske kisi paane par agar koi marj hai to beshak kisi dusre panne par us marj ka ilaaj hai!”
JATIN Kakkar – J.K. (This is an extract of my work Life and destiny still in progress)
“FREEDOM 251 GOING TO BE A REALITY OR WILL BECOME MERE A BLUR DREAM???”
As we see its too easy to make us fool when we deliberately wanna become fool thinking as if this value is not material for us and ignores many facts and figures that we must know , we think we are too smart and a big risk taker when we do such types of jobs , that is really a big example of our
foolishness!
When I was seeing the advertisement some days before this company was offering smartphone for Rs. 3000/ .
After some days I found an another full page advertisement on the leading newspapers .
God knows whether company is going to supply a smartphone in such cheap price or going to make the innocent people fool as they deliberately want to become and the person who want to fell into a dig who can save.
Anyway I m not criticizing anyone in any manner but the thing is not digestible because we study in Indian contract act,1872 that offer to perform an impossible act is void ab initio, but this act can be successful as well as become a blur dream!
Anyway everything is lying in the leap of time and time is the best reporter ever and will inform us whether we are really fool or become smart after getting the freedom 251 in a country where we have not get the basic and necessary thing that are our prime needs , getting smartphone @ 251 cure us how much and in how much extent lets see !
One thing is certain that company has gotten good response from people as they want to purchase a smartphone for such cheaper price in which a monthly data plan is not available, One thing is really surprising that in our country there is not people of different different thought but of same kind of thinking getting things without thinking about and giving due consideration to the things should be considered.
Anyway what’ll happen in June is really a suspense because people are saying different different things about this offer but reality may be something different and might be they are expecting . Let’s wait for June and everything will be cleared.
My motive is not to criticize over this advertisement but mere I want to know your views and want to make a debate and really want to know how is this possible for company to supply smartphone not for Rs 1000 but 1/4 plus a little fraction of cost , it might be possible but really if it happens it will be a big achievement and a big shock for other players playing in this sector.
Waiting for Answers : JATIN Kakkar – J.K. @ j.k.
QUESTION YOURSELF!! 