Many-a-times we oftenly see the situations where people can be seen saying like,” He or she is irritating me!” Oh God! Such person is so irritating and annoying !” At this behavior of people I really feel surprised because I know that nothing can affect us except our own attitude towards life and people we interact with in our life span.
How a person who doesn’t having any sense of speaking or say an indifferent person who has considered only his or her business.
Psychologically everything starts from your thinking . If you feel hurt and respond to a nonsense argument that means you are going to hand over your remote control into anothers’ hands. (The meaning here giving remoter control is; yours reaction on the silly and stupid behavior of people oftenly can be seen in every environment. If you react that means you have handed over your switches into anothrs’ hands and such people will do it again and again because they would know that when you loose your control over yourself and where you become unconscious .)
The things are simple but you make them as typical as a “Math da method “ and in this way you start expecting the help of others for doing that job that means nothing but giving your swithches into the hand of that person to whom you are expecting something.
He or she from whom you are expecting to get the work done will do or not do , if do then how much time he or she will take? Will he or she consider it as his or her own work or will perform it as a mere formality?
You are the boss of your own will and you are having power to take decisions an your ar really able enough to bear the risk of failure or your decision because when your decisions will be fructified it will no one who will celebrate (the victory of your achievements) the most but you yourself!
Swami vivekanand quote “ All the powers of this universe are inherent in human but he or she try to find it here and there like a kastoori deer!”
You believe on others yourself and later complaint that someone has ditched you; Why will you not be ditched? You are responsible and deserve it ; why you believe on others more than beleieving on yourself while you know very well it is no one but you yourself who will accompany you all the time and will take pain for your interests more than anyone .
But it’s a misfortune you don’t dare to believe on such a dedicated and faitful friend and expect from others and in the meantime if the person to whom you are expecting something doesn’t stand good on your expectation you feel dejected and feel belooted. Who is responsible for it, the person you expected from or you yourself?
Of course you because you yourself have passed your switches into the hands of that person.
You should believe on your own mind , hands and everything you have been gifted by the nature and think this type of motivational quote for self motivation and direction. “mere ek hath ko bas mere duje haath ka sahara mil jaye , bas isi ke dam par mujhe duniya ki har daulat mil jaye!”
If you will believe on yourself first then you will be able to hold your switches in your own hands otherwise people will play with you .sometimes they will on and rest of the time off. I.e you will be responding over their sill –silly acts or dramas!
Moral: you are mightier than mightier ; need is of nothing but realizing yourself i.e “ khud ko theek se samajh lo duniya ko samajhna khud ba khud aa jayega!”
JATIN Kakkar – J.K.
QUESTION YOURSELF!! 